confusion...emotions?

I came home...from my aunt's house. My daughter and I had dinner there. It was total chaos when I got home and my husband was upset at my daughter because she had done her chores incorrectly. I get a call from one of my closest friends, asking me details about my childhood. Darn, if I could even remember details of this morning, that would be amazing. Apparently, I might have found the other half of my family. I was filled witih many emotions. I first sent an email and a scanned picture from my wedding almost 14 years ago. I'm ot sure what I would ask...but it would be especially important to get my health history and find out if anyone in their family has had lupus. I would be able to have some closure on that chapter of my life.