woest me

Why, oh why did we have a girl? My husband says that he will start growing gray hairs from all these boys that are talking to his daughter. I admittedly feel the same. I am trying to stay open and ideal, right? What to do?? We were blessed with a beautiful girl. I am hoping that we have raised her well and she will make good decisions, right? Ok, why am I doubting myself? I just want to protect her...but, then again, she will have to deal with it on her own one day. Mom and dad won't be around forever to guide her. I just have to have faith. I just remember when I was that age...how friendships, boys, etc. were so exciting and family was just blah. I wanted to do so many things...but my life was an intention. I was intended to be a mother, a wife and a friend. I have no regrets. I love my daughter and my husband. My life has taught me quite a bit about life, expectations and especially responsibilities. My better half says...leave it alone. My other half says...investigate. What will I do?