What is a husband? Besides being the person you are supposed to be sharing your life with? My husband is hard to tell. He can be so loving, but other times I wonder. I wonder if he really loves me. Love is so difficult to understand. We have been married for almost 15 years and we are still trying to figure out the wrinkles in our marriage. One day, moment, second, we are okay, then it could change in the matter of a snap. Depending on attitude and mood.